i searched google for faults in indian girl and only one relevant article came and it talked about seven faults indian girls have, wanna know what? they are too beautiful for us, too colourful, too independent and some random shit showcasing photos of successful indian girls! yeah, thats like treating every indian guy as hrithik or virat kohli! lets be more realistic to problems and then only one can expect some answers...
i recently went to a conference having kids from 51 countries right from russia, us, mexico, iran, syria to sri lanka, malasya, china, korea and what not! i instantly felt in love with the place and saw it as an opportunity to go out and talk to them... and on the basis of my first hand experience with a breakup, with so many chases, so many friends close enough and then with this... i am writing this article finally about the realisations, my personal but you can learn stuff if you like!
So here's the bit:
1. INDIAN GIRLS ARE STILL LOW ON INDEPENDENCE:
however much the articles portray progressive indian girls and society going forward, i see a big problem. i watch girls working less on their talents and resources but enhancing their beauty and carefully putting selfies and glamorous photos on Facebook, why? maybe so that they are spotted by the right good guy and then they can rely on him for life post marriage. Upon talking to girls from developed nations, i find they think of being their better version in all senses, they work without caring about their hairs, clothes anything... internal fulfilment is their need! this is probably due to the environment in our country but awareness and introspection for indian girls will help them break this shell.
2. NOT SO SIMPLE:
indian culture has its own way of working and girls seem to be disadvantaged for they are always seen as someone more or less a gift to some other family, this thing stays in their heads, the girls and as they grow they find themselves looking for a perfect guy who will take them, care for them and keep them happy! this makes them look at guys as ticket to wonderful, comfortable life - so they look for guys who have financial richness and promising future, this takes them away from the direct course of love, love is natural and such rules don't preserve the love or promotes it! this makes them talk complicated things.
3. MEAN, EGOISTIC, CONFUSED, WEAK - TROUBLED
the pressure cooker situation with girls in india affects them more on mental level than any other. you meet them and you find they are troubled by their direct and indirect issues. they form weak bonds in relationships and often end up getting deceived and not taking thoughtful decisions. they make troubled souls not catering to the needs of their own forget their kids.
4. TOO SCARED -
living in patriarchal society turning open, girls in india are scared till their roots. its too new to them and then often are too scared even for the right stuff. the girls outside gets scared too but not about talking to this new guy or taking selfies or giving numbers!
5. LESS OF DOERS, MORE OF TALKERS -
we are humans we talk alot but doing is as important as talking. when we work, we tend to get more humble and more accepting and less scared. its action that gives us the satisfaction that completes us and then we walk this life with poise, the real one.
There's dearth of real and accepting articles about the psychology of indian girls, you can agree and disagree as an indian woman but what would you do? go out and vent about it! do it... your welcome! you want to think about it, reject it thinking whats write, your welcome!!!!
i am sure i love indian girls, they are amazing and doing a better job than man being at their position but some problems are worth the though and bit underrated, so see if you feel i am nice enough guy to marry, i will say i need to talk to you and know you if you are indian girl, i want to know your traumas and your strength, why should i take a weak candidate and choose her for my life? i better find someone from mexico... or russia... :D
thanks
i recently went to a conference having kids from 51 countries right from russia, us, mexico, iran, syria to sri lanka, malasya, china, korea and what not! i instantly felt in love with the place and saw it as an opportunity to go out and talk to them... and on the basis of my first hand experience with a breakup, with so many chases, so many friends close enough and then with this... i am writing this article finally about the realisations, my personal but you can learn stuff if you like!
So here's the bit:
1. INDIAN GIRLS ARE STILL LOW ON INDEPENDENCE:
however much the articles portray progressive indian girls and society going forward, i see a big problem. i watch girls working less on their talents and resources but enhancing their beauty and carefully putting selfies and glamorous photos on Facebook, why? maybe so that they are spotted by the right good guy and then they can rely on him for life post marriage. Upon talking to girls from developed nations, i find they think of being their better version in all senses, they work without caring about their hairs, clothes anything... internal fulfilment is their need! this is probably due to the environment in our country but awareness and introspection for indian girls will help them break this shell.
2. NOT SO SIMPLE:
indian culture has its own way of working and girls seem to be disadvantaged for they are always seen as someone more or less a gift to some other family, this thing stays in their heads, the girls and as they grow they find themselves looking for a perfect guy who will take them, care for them and keep them happy! this makes them look at guys as ticket to wonderful, comfortable life - so they look for guys who have financial richness and promising future, this takes them away from the direct course of love, love is natural and such rules don't preserve the love or promotes it! this makes them talk complicated things.
3. MEAN, EGOISTIC, CONFUSED, WEAK - TROUBLED
the pressure cooker situation with girls in india affects them more on mental level than any other. you meet them and you find they are troubled by their direct and indirect issues. they form weak bonds in relationships and often end up getting deceived and not taking thoughtful decisions. they make troubled souls not catering to the needs of their own forget their kids.
4. TOO SCARED -
living in patriarchal society turning open, girls in india are scared till their roots. its too new to them and then often are too scared even for the right stuff. the girls outside gets scared too but not about talking to this new guy or taking selfies or giving numbers!
5. LESS OF DOERS, MORE OF TALKERS -
we are humans we talk alot but doing is as important as talking. when we work, we tend to get more humble and more accepting and less scared. its action that gives us the satisfaction that completes us and then we walk this life with poise, the real one.
There's dearth of real and accepting articles about the psychology of indian girls, you can agree and disagree as an indian woman but what would you do? go out and vent about it! do it... your welcome! you want to think about it, reject it thinking whats write, your welcome!!!!
i am sure i love indian girls, they are amazing and doing a better job than man being at their position but some problems are worth the though and bit underrated, so see if you feel i am nice enough guy to marry, i will say i need to talk to you and know you if you are indian girl, i want to know your traumas and your strength, why should i take a weak candidate and choose her for my life? i better find someone from mexico... or russia... :D
thanks
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